Lainey Berlin's Quirky and Thoughtful Photo Series "GIRLS"

Monday, February 27, 2017

Lainey Berlin is a fellow college student from Dallas, Texas who "strive[s] to capture authenticity, natural beauty, genuine hearts and timeless memories through [her] photos." Her photo series entitled "GIRLS" embodies that vision for her creativity, yet also proves something much greater. It provokes a strong message around the idea of what it means to be womanly in this day and age. Lainey describes this as "capturing the nature and beauty of femininity", and here at H&H we are all about learning and listening to others on this topic many of us hold dear.

Therefore, today we get to chat and dive a little deeper with the girl behind the project. 


Habit & Heart: Where did inspiration come from for this project?

Lainey Berlin: Inspiration for this series came from a compilation of different photographers, musicians, artists and magazines that I have followed and appreciated over the years. Some names including Lauren Tepfer, Petra Collins, Tavi Gevinson, the 1975, Lorde, Ryn Weaver, Darling Magazine and many other Instagram accounts and Tumblr photographs built up in my archive. However, if I were to pinpoint one source of inspiration, I would have to say the book Babe by Petra and Tavi really opened my eyes to a whole new side of photography and power that I was unaware of. Babe is a collection of photographs reflecting feminism while exploring female identity in midst of our objectifying and degrading media world. More than thirty female artists came together to contribute to create one voice. It wasn’t until I flipped through the pages of this book when I realized I too could use my passion of photography as a voice to all girls around the world who are growing up in the society that I am. I have always dreamed of creating a photo-set that not only held a story, but a powerful message. It wasn’t until recently when I started to become confident in my photography, that I decided to make this project a reality.

H&H: How would you describe femininity and being a woman?

LB: I could spend days coming up with characteristics and phrases in attempt to conclude with one truthful definition of what I believe being a woman means, but thankfully I don’t have to. Being a woman isn’t confined to one single definition. Instead, being a woman means exceeding expectations, breaking barriers, proving power while at the same time remaining unapologetically confident and secure with who you are as a female. There is not a single woman who sets the example of how every girl should live and look, despite what the media suggests. Darling Magazine says it best, women need to realize “beauty apart from vanity, influence apart from manipulation, style apart from materialism, sweetness apart from passivity, and womanhood without degradation.” Women need to support other women. Women need to love other women. Women need to look out for other women. But most importantly, women need to come together to prove their power. I mean, girl power, can I get an amen?


"Women need to support other women.
Women need to love other women. 
Women need to look out for other women."

H&H: I noticed you switched up your editing style with these photos, using pink and cooler tones. Was this choice intentional?

LB: My editing choices for this set were 100% intentional. Personally, the pink and blue tones evoke a sense emotion that would not be successfully created with any other colors. I feel as if the aesthetic of the photographs properly convey the message I was hoping to get across. I have also carried this aesthetic into my other Instagram photos. I like how it sets my pictures apart from what people typically see when scrolling through their feed.

H&H: What other artistic choices did you make when creating this project?

LB: When I was in the process of taking the photos, I came to realize that there was a very fine line between being getting the project done and allowing myself the time to truly love what I created. Although GIRLS is composed of only six photographs, I took about 100+ photos and had 12-14 final products to choose from. In fact, the original six photos I was planning on posting where either retaken or replaced by another idea the week I published them. I worked on this series for about two weeks until I was 100% happy with it, forcing me to be patient. I challenged myself not to settle, but instead I wanted GIRLS to be something I was proud of. 

"I challenged myself not to settle, 
but instead I wanted GIRLS 
to be something I was proud of."

H&H: As noted in your artist statement, what is the overall story you have created through GIRLS? And, what is the individual meaning of each photo?

LB: I understand I have been quite vague with the story created through GIRLS, but there is a reason for that. I strongly believe that not all art needs an explanation. This is derived from my experiences throughout school, specifically English class. Almost every time we were asked to analyze a poem or piece of writing I never had the same answer as my classmates. I became very insecure and questioned why I saw things differently, essentially making myself believe that I was wrong. Because of that, I strive to create something open-ended. My art has no “right” answer. My art is challenging, mysterious, and limitless. I want someone to look at a photo and see something different than the next person. Just how there is no single definition for women, there is no single story in GIRLS.

H&H: Do you have other ideas in the works? What is next for you creatively?

LB: Believe it or not I have a growing list of ideas on the Notes in my phone for more photo series.  Some major topics I plan to capture in future projects include our society’s obsession with technology, specifically cell phones and social media. I also plan to disprove the common assumption that there is a correlation between sensitivity and weakness. I am constantly inspired every single day by even the littlest of things, so there is so much more to come that I don’t even know - yet, how thrilling is that?


That's a wrap! Thank you so much, Lainey, for sharing your heart behind GIRLS and letting us feel allllll the creative feels (it can't just be me!). You can follow along with Lainey through Instagram and her website.

February Roundup: Celebrating Creative Community

Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Image by Karissa Nickish
A new tradition starting here on Habit & Heart is a monthly roundup of inspiring reads, interesting articles, and overall creative content. For the month of February, we are focused around community. Each of these messages showcases the need for an encouraging community surrounding us to build up and challenge us each day.

01 | To Read (Digital): "The Real Reasons we Compare on Social Media" via Darling Magazine

An Interview with University of Missouri Professor (Miz represent!) Dr. Jennifer Lewallen speaks volumes to a popular problem in this day and age - comparison. She emphasizes why we compare both in real life and online, and more importantly, how certain social comparison can actually benefit us.

Image by Karissa Nickish
02 | To Read (Print): Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

I read this book over my winter break this past year, and boy did it refresh my creative soul. And, because Liz (that's what I call her to make her sound like a friend) says it best:

"A creative life is an amplified life. It’s a bigger life, a happier life, an expanded life, and a hell of a lot more interesting life. Living in this manner—continually and stubbornly bringing forth the jewels that are hidden within you—is a fine art, in and of itself."

Right on, Liz, right on. 

03 | To Watch: CreativeLive: 30 Days of Genius

If you are wanting to be inspired everyday for an entire month, here you go! Created by Chase Jarvis, 30 Days of Genius is composed of 30 interviews with various creatives from all walks of life and styles of work. Once subscribed (you can HERE - it's free!), these videos will drop into your email everyday ready for you to watch.

Image by Karissa Nickish
04 | To Listen To: "Community Not Competition" with Nate Snell via Sounds Good Podcast

Brandon Harvey does a fantastic job at interviewing interesting, inspiring people each week over on his podcast, Sounds Good. This interview with Nate Snell, owner of Pip's Original Doughnuts in Portland, Oregon, highlights the beauty and success of working and uniting together rather than keeping gain to oneself.

05 | To Follow (Instagram): @britandco

Brit + Co is self-described as "a media company that inspires, educates and entertains real women with a creative spirit." AKA, hello, that is us! Based in San Francisco, this team of creatives will encourage you through their meaningful yet aesthetic images & captions to value the community around you. Brit + Co truly embodies this truth: that, if used well, even social media can be a platform to gain inspiration, support, and learn from one another.

What content are you consuming this month that you are loving?

Three Ways to Create a Digital Mood Board

Wednesday, February 8, 2017

Via @catemarg on Pinterest
Mood or inspiration boards have become more and more popular for creatives to utilize in their homes, office, and any space one can get his or her hands on. I have always loved creating my own mood boards since it creates a visual representation of what I am currently inspired by - from art to style to colors, and everything in between. Though physical visuals* can make the space around you more artistic, many of us do not have the space to create and desire to be surrounded by said inspiration at all times. Therefore, there are many digital forms that allow for expression on the go.

Here are three ways you can curate a well-designed mood board from your phone or computer.

01 | Instagram Feed and Saved Photos

Via @cate.marg on Instagram
Via @cate.marg on Instagram
Though Instagram can be used for all sorts of platforms, you can easily create a mood board through your feed. The best way to do this is to plan out your grid! Darling Magazine recently wrote a great article on "4 Things That Zap Your Creativity on Instagram" that you can check out to take your Instagram feed to the next level.

Additionally, you can create a mood board through your saved photos. This feature is new - and is quickly becoming my favorite! In the bottom right on each photo, there is a bookmark icon that you can click. Then, it saves it to a board only you can see on your profile (far right icon next to "Photos of You"). This is where you collect photos from a variety of people you follow on Instagram that you're constantly inspired or encouraged by - this way, you can easily look back each day, week, or month and can visually see how your artistic eye is evolving. 

02 | Photoshop

Created by Claire Nichols, Instagram HERE 
Using Photoshop would be most preferrable for someone who enjoys the creative freedom to design their own layouts. Through this software, you can form your "board" in whatever style you like - whether super layered, clean cut, or a combination of the two. Plus, look at what a different a little typography here and there makes! Count me in. However, you can get these creative vibes a few ways...

a) Through Purchasing the Software on your Computer. You can pay a one-time fee or choose a monthly plan. Plus - if you are not sure you want to commit just yet, try a free trial HERE. (Oh, hey students - there are great deals especially for us, too!)
b) Purchasing Similar Apps on your Smartphone. A few of my favorites include Diptic, ABeautifulMess, and even the Photoshop app. All of these options give you the same creative freedom to create or choose from unique layouts and add in design elements.

03 | Pinterest
Via @catemarg on Pinterest
Last but not least, we cannot forget about Pinterest. Though probably the easiest way to gain and sort through inspiration, it may come as a surprise to some that it can be used as an intentional mood board. You can do this through...

a) Creating very specific boards. Not just "style", but "winter style". Not just "home", but "the kitchen". By creating detailed boards, it will naturally become more curated and specific in content. Yet if you do not prefer having a multitude of boards to sort though, you can opt for option b.
b) Adding just one more board to your account for inspiration. If the first option seems too daunting, this may be for you. Create a separate board specifically for your mood board. From here, you can pin  or re-pin your current favorite images to create a cohesive, artistic space.

Do you create digital mood boards? If so, what format do you use?


*This post is the first of two focused on creating mood or inspiration moods. Later this month, we will learn more about how to create the ideal physical mood board for your surroundings. Get excited!


Let's Go into the New Year Slowly (And Welcome Back!)

Wednesday, February 1, 2017

Image by Karissa Nickish
Hi there, followers! Thought I (Cate) would pop in before today's post to share a bit on a more personal note. It seems it has been a good minute since the last post here on Habit & Heart. And, by a minute, I really mean five months. Simply writing that out pains me a bit, if I am being completely honest. I pride myself on being a loyal, consistent person - in my relationships, work, and goals. Yet, sometimes, you just can't be. With the start of college, moving states, and an overall large transition in my life, this blog was easily one of the first things to go in order to focus on my current season of life. Though not completely intentional, I knew I needed a break - to focus and keep up with less so that I could be fully present. 

Yet, excuses and explanations aside, H&H is back beginning this new year. It is going to be a bit more sparse this time around - posting just once a week rather than twice - but hopefully with more attention and consistency. So, cheers to new beginnings and to try, try again.


Moving into a new year, it is easy to feel the pressure of feeling "new". We feel as though we need to have last year all wrapped up in a pretty bow, reflected on & learned from - all by midnight on December 31st. (Well, more like by 5 p.m. because we have places to go and people to see, right?) And, then, we should wake up on New Years Day with resolutions thoroughly thought out - and if you are like me, intricately watercolored and posted on Instagram by 10 a.m with a meaningful caption.

Here is the deal - that is not bad. I actually pretty into that whole system if I am being honest with my type-A self. Yet, that is not reality for many of us. We are not always ready to completely begin anew, even as tempting as society makes it look. And - between you and me - that is where I am at, so let's go through this together, OK?

"We are not always ready 
to completely begin anew, even as tempting 
as society makes it look."

Image by Karissa Nickish

So, here are few reminders as we enter this new year.

It is OK to Not be Finished with 2016

Heck, it was just a few weeks ago. You do not have to forget the past and move on just because of a mere year change. If you have goals you have not yet accomplished from the past year, continue! If you still need time to reflect on the past year - what you learned, accomplished, or how you have grown - reflect! There is not a deadline or handbook that tells us we must have it all completed by a certain day. Learning and growing is a process, and one that is so rewarding when given proper timing.

New Year Goals are Good, but not When Contained to 365 Days

How beautiful is it that our culture celebrates the idea of a fresh start each year? Yet, we must not be so quick to think that change and "new" should simply start on January first and end 365 days later. Beginnings and endings of seasons in life are both personal and different for everyone. A goal may only take a few weeks or months - or maybe needs more than a year to complete well. Therefore, let us choose to start new goals when we feel the natural need to - not when society or a planner tells us.

Image by Karissa Nickish
"Beginnings and endings of seasons in life 
are both personal and different for everyone."

Stop With the Negative Self-Talk

Our inner monologue can be the most dangerous aspect to accomplishing goals and moving forward. Author Anne Lamott states that "my mind is a neighborhood I try not to go into alone." Her words ring true to many of us as we examine how poorly we talk to ourselves. So, instead of downing our worth this new year for not accomplishing past resolutions, or being discouraged when we slip up on our new goals, let us remember to treat ourselves like we would treat a friend -- with grace, forgiveness, and the right to move forward.

So, here we are, choosing to go into this year slowly. With goals in mind, grace at heart, and knowing that we do not need January first to be made "new" considering we are being made new each and every day.

What are your current goals?


Please say a kind hello to Karissa Nickish, who will be providing some of her beautiful images in upcoming posts! You can follow along with her bright and cheery photographs on Instagram HERE.
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